I decided that I’m going to start a new thing for my blog: I’ll write posts about individual kids and our relationship. This is Leti, who is 14 years old. I’m really happy that we’re friends because I don’t have her in therapy. One night when I had first come, I happened to sit near her at dinner. She and her friend started talking to me and asking me questions about myself. We started joking around somehow about the Twilight series (which, as a side note, are absolutely AWFUL in my opinion; I tried to read the first book once and stopped because the plot line was SO predictable, as well as the static characters – the main character was just stupid and made me angry) and Leti said that Alis (a male character) was my boyfriend. She has a great sense of humor and an infectious laugh; Leti’s really fun to be around.
After our first meeting, I would sit with her and her friend Odilia at dinner if the kids from my section had already gone to bed. And then we bonded! I’m always laughing when I’m around Leti. Although we aren’t super close now and don’t see each other too often, she brought a gift to my office last week. I was so surprised! She made me an adorable card that said “Amigas” (and even managed to spell my name correctly; I was very impressed, because Guatemalans have difficulty spelling and pronouncing Bridget).
She wrote, “Te quiero mucho. Gracias por tu amistad. El valor de un amigo solo puede ser medido por el corazón. La verdadera amistad continúa creciendo más allá por la distancia. Que Dios te bendiga. Amigos: Son aquellos que están contigo en las buenas y malas. Te aceptan como eres. No dejes que tu orgullo pueda más que tu corazón … la amistad es como el mar se ve al principio pero no al final.” In English: “I love you very much. Thank you for your friendship. God bless you. The value of a friend can only be measured from the heart. True friendship keeps growing more with distance. Friends: Are those that are with you in good times and in bad. They accept you as you are. Don’t let your pride rise above your heart … friendship is how the sea looks at the beginning, not at the end.”
I love her!